7 Steps to Move Out of Europe
It starts with honesty and ends with a life you actually chose
For a long time, Europe felt like the answer.
Universal healthcare. Six weeks of annual leave. Affordable universities. A train to almost anywhere. And for generations, it was enough. More than enough.
But something has shifted.
Housing costs in Berlin, Amsterdam, Paris, London, and Dublin have gone higher and higher each year. Wages haven’t kept pace. The dream of owning a home in the city where you grew up now feels like a fantasy reserved for those who inherited one. Young professionals are watching their most productive years disappear into rent payments and tax brackets, while the bureaucratic machinery of their home country hums along indifferently.
I know this because I lived it. A flat in Frankfurt (Germany), a mid-sized European city, a salary that looked fine on paper, and the persistent, uncomfortable feeling that I was running hard just to stay in place. I wasn’t poor by any stretch but I wasn’t free, either.
The pressure started to increase especially after the arrival of our second child.
So we left.
And if you’re reading this, I guess some part of you is considering it too.
Here’s what I wish I had known before I started.
Step 1: Stop romanticising your current situation
The first step isn’t logistics. It’s mental.
Many Europeans who want to leave get stuck in a loop of guilt and ambivalence. You love your country. You love the culture, the food, the proximity to family. You feel vaguely disloyal for even googling “best countries to move to from Europe”. You wonder if you’re just running away from something instead of running toward something.
Here’s the reframe:
Leaving doesn’t mean rejecting where you came from. It means treating your life as something you get to design, not inherit.
At the same time, don’t idealize the destination. Every country has its frustrations: political, social, practical. The goal isn’t to find paradise. It’s to find the specific trade-offs that work better for you, right now, in this chapter of your life.
Once you separate the decision from shame and fantasy alike, everything else gets cleaner.
Step 2: Get honest about what you’re actually escaping
Before you research visa categories, ask yourself harder questions:
What specifically isn’t working?
Why do you want a change?
Is it housing costs? Career ceiling? The tax burden on self-employment? The weather grinding you down for eight months of the year? A sense that the social fabric has become too rigid, or too fragmented? A relationship that needs distance from family interference?
The more precisely you can name it, the better your destination-matching will be. Someone leaving Germany because of bureaucratic friction and the sense that building a business is actively punished will thrive in different places than someone leaving Ireland because of housing costs and a desire for warmth and pace.
Make a list. Be specific. “I want a better quality of life” is a feeling, not a criterion. “I want to be able to buy a three-bedroom home within ten years on a single income, in a city with a good food scene and an international community” is a brief.
Step 3: Research destinations you can see yourself relocating too
Europe has given you one significant asset most of the world’s migrants lack: a powerful passport. Use it wisely!
Let’s address the elephant in the room first. Dubai. If you’ve spent any time on TikTok or Instagram in the last years, you’d be forgiven for thinking it’s the only destination that exists. Tax-free salary, gleaming skyline, rooftop pools.
I travel there every couple of weeks for work, and here’s what I can tell you with full confidence: it is not what it looks like on your feed. The cost of living has increased and finding quality housing at a reasonable price is difficult. The social scene can feel transactional and exhausting. And without a sponsoring employer or a very specific type of business setup, the visa situation is far more complicated than the influencers making it look effortless would ever admit. Dubai can be the right move for the right person (I truly love working there). But it should be a conclusion you reach through research, not a reflex.
Now, the actual landscape.
Depending on your nationality, you likely have visa-free or visa-on-arrival access to over 180 countries, and a growing number of nations actively court European residents with digital nomad visas, retirement visas, and investor residency programmes. The options are genuinely wide. Here's how to think about them by what you're actually trying to solve:
For lower cost of living + warmth: Portugal’s interior, Thailand, Mexico (particularly Mexico City or Oaxaca), Colombia, Georgia (the country), and Malaysia consistently come up among European expats for good reason.
For career and salary growth: The Gulf states (particularly the UAE and Qatar) offer zero income tax and genuinely high salaries for skilled professionals. Canada, Australia, and Singapore are established pathways for those seeking long-term migration with a route to permanent residency.
For entrepreneurs and the self-employed: Estonia’s e-Residency programme, Dubai’s freelance ecosystem, and Panama’s Friendly Nations Visa have built real infrastructure around attracting independent workers.
For retirees or those with passive income: Costa Rica, Montenegro, and Malta’s residency-by-investment programme attract those who want European-adjacent quality of life at a fraction of the cost.
Do not just watch YouTube vlogs about these places. Visit for at least three to four weeks before committing. Live like a resident, not a tourist. Shop at local supermarkets, use local transport, sit in a café on a Tuesday afternoon and feel the rhythm of ordinary life.
Step 4: Understand your current financials at home
This is the step most people put off too long, and it causes the most headaches.
Before you move, you need to understand your current financial ties: property ownership, pension contributions, investments, tax residency obligations, and any outstanding credit or loans. European countries vary significantly in what they expect from departing residents.
Some key questions to investigate for your specific country:
What are the rules around maintaining or surrendering tax residency?
Do you have a workplace or state pension that you’ll need to freeze, transfer, or cash out?
If you own property, will you rent it, sell it, or leave it sitting and what are the tax implications of each?
Does your bank allow non-resident accounts, and which digital banking alternatives (e.g., Wise, Revolut, N26) will work in your destination country?
Hire a cross-border tax advisor, not just an accountant. This is not a place to cut corners. One poorly handled year of dual tax residency can cost more than the advisor’s entire fee.
Step 5: Sort your paperwork and get to know relocation requirements
European bureaucracies are famously deliberate, and departing them can take just as long as navigating them in the first place. Give yourself far more time than you think you need.
Gather and certify key documents: birth certificate, degree certificates, marriage certificate if applicable, criminal record check (many destination countries require apostille-certified versions), proof of professional qualifications, and your last two to three years of tax returns.
Visa processing times vary wildly. Some digital nomad visas take four to six weeks; some residency programmes take six to twelve months. If you’re also planning to exit the tax system of your home country, that process has its own timeline and requirements. Start all of it earlier than feels necessary.
One overlooked task: get a notarized power of attorney for someone you trust at home. Once you’re abroad, being unable to handle a bureaucratic issue in your home country because you’re not physically present is one of the most common and avoidable sources of stress for new expats.
Step 6: Build your infrastructure before you land
The first three months in a new country will test you. Not because anything is necessarily going wrong but because setting up a life from scratch, while also adapting to a new culture and climate, while also managing the emotional weight of having left, is genuinely demanding.
Reduce the load in advance.
Before you move:
Secure accommodation for at least the first sixty to ninety days (don’t assume you’ll figure it out on arrival)
Join expat forums and Facebook groups for your destination city and start asking questions now, not later
Identify which international health insurance policy will cover you in transit and before local coverage kicks in
If you’re moving for work, make sure your contract, work permit, and payroll setup are confirmed in writing before you resign anything at home
If you have children, research school options thoroughly international school waiting lists in popular destinations can be long
The Europeans who struggle most with relocation are typically those who moved on impulse with a romantic idea of starting fresh and few practical preparations. The ones who thrive are those who treated the move like a project with dependencies and milestones.
Step 7: Give yourself permission to grieve and to stay
This one nobody talks about.
You will miss things. You’ll miss the specific quality of afternoon light in the city you grew up in. You’ll miss being able to read a menu without translating. You’ll miss your people (not in a vague, occasional way) but with a specific physical ache that arrives at strange times and doesn’t care how good your new life objectively is.
That grief is not a sign you made the wrong decision. It’s a sign that you came from somewhere real and you loved it. Let yourself feel it without using it as data against the move.
At the same time: give yourself full permission to go back.
Some people move abroad and never look back. Some do a few years, get what they came for financial breathing room, adventure, professional growth, warmth and return with a different perspective and a better sense of what they actually want from home. Neither outcome is failure. The failure is never asking the question in the first place.
Your home country will still be there. So will the bureaucracy, the weather, and the things you love about it.
The only thing with an expiry date is the version of you that’s willing to find out what else is possible.
So many good tips, Romy.